The Biggest regret in many people lives


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It is not death most people are afraid of. It is getting to the end of life only to realise that you never truly lived. There was a study done, a hospital study on 100 elderly people. Facing death, close to their last breath they were asked to reflect on their life’s biggest regret.

Nearly all of them said they regret, not the things they did but the things they didn’t do. The risks they never took. The dreams they didn’t pursue.

I ask you, will your last words be “If only I had…”?.

Life is not meant to simply work wait for the weekend and pay rent. No, never. Every person on this earth has a gift. And I apologize to the black community. But I can no longer pretend.

See, people don’t choose dreams. Dreams choose them. So the question I’m getting to is do you have the courage to grab the dream that picked you? That befits you and grips you. Or will you let it get away and slip through?

You know I learned a fact about aeroplanes the other day. Now, this was so surprising, see… I was talking to a pilot and he told me that many of his passengers think planes are dangerous to fly in. But he said, “ actually… It is a lot more dangerous for a plane to stay on the ground”. I said, “what? Like, how does that sound?”.

Well, he said, because on the ground the plane starts to rust. Malfunction and wear must faster than it ever would if it was in the air.
As I walked away, I thought “yeah, makes total sense”. Because planes were built to live in the skies. And every person was built to live out the dream they have inside.

So it is, perhaps, the saddest loss to live a life on the ground without ever taking off. See most of us are afraid of the thief that comes in the night to steal all of our things. But there is a thief in your mind who is after your dreams. His name is doubt. If you see him, call the cops and keep him away from the kids because he is wanted for murder for he has killed more dreams than failure ever did.

He wears many disguises and like a virus, will leave you blinded, divided and turn you into a “kinda”.See kinda is lethal. You know what kinda is. There is a lot of kinda people. You kinda want a Career change… kinda want to get straight as… kinda want to get in shape.

Simple math. No numbers to crunch. If you kinda want something then you will kinda get the results you want.

What is your dream? What ignites that spark? You can’t kinda want that. You gotta want it with every part of your whole heart. Will you struggle? Yeh, yeah. You will struggle. No way around it.

You will fall many times. But who’s counting? Just remember: There’s no such thing as a smooth mountain. If you want to make it to the top then there are sharp ridges that must be stepped over. There will be times you get stressed and things you get depressed over.

But let me tell you something: Steven Spielberg was rejected from film school three times. But he kept going. The television execs fired Oprah. Said she wasn’t fit for TV but she kept going. Critics told Beyonce that she couldn’t sing. She went through depression, but she kept going.

Struggle and criticisms are prerequisites for greatness. That is the law of this universe and no one escapes it. Because pain is life. But you can choose what type: Either the pain on the road to success or the pain of being haunted.

With regret. Do you want my advice? Don’t think twice. We have been given a gift that we call life. So don’t blow it. You are not defined by your past. Instead, you are born anew in each moment. SO OWN IT NOW.

Sometimes you gotta leap and grow your wings on the way down. You better get the shot off before the clock runs out. Because ain’t no overtime in a life. No do-over.

And I know I sound like I’m preaching or speaking with force. But if you don’t use your gift then you sell, not only yourself but the whole world short.

So what invention do you have buried in your mind? What idea, what cure, what skill do you have inside to bring out to this universe Uni meaning one. Verse meaning song. You have a part to play in this song. So grab that microphone and be brave. Sing your heart out on life’s stage.

You cannot go back and make a brand new beginning. But you can start now and make a brand new ending.

So start doing it today. Don’t regret after reaching the end of your life. You will not get anything back. For instance, regret now for not doing it now. And start to work your dream.

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